Those 3 magical words- I Love You

in #love7 years ago (edited)

"Real love is a real coaster ride"

Hi Guys,

This is something you must read if have any love connection. But trust me these 3 magical words "I Love You" is less terrifying than "I Love You Too".

Hahahaha , I know i have terrified you as i am getting on to your nerve. But for many people this is literally terrifying. Lets us know why. I am here to give you my perspective so please don't be offended. And even if you are offended i won't care as its my thoughts and i am not going to change it.

Do "i love you too" means you are bound to love ...?

To some extent yes. It means you are stuck now as you also feel the same. Sometime, this is mutual for some duration and then it vanishes as nothing can't be permanent except if it is rock solid. Hence, leaving both in a critical situation.

Does "I love you too" makes you to tell lies ?

Now since you are in love with that person, you don't want to hurt by telling things that may hurt. You think its crime to criticize. You see only the good aspects and try cover all the negative things.

Why "I love you too" makes you to kill your aspiration or take away your freedom ?

Sometime you forget being selfish. You become care taker of other person. You forget to follow your passion. And yes many time, your time is not yours now.

So, i would rather ask you to first contemplate upon these things and then say "I LOVE YOU TOO". As then these things will not haunt you.

I love you- has lot more deeper things in it. It comes with a lot of scarifies and lot of drama. Just take it as the worlds's most adventurous and dangerous roller coaster ride.

You will got lot of shocks and surprises. With lot of highs and lows. During this ride you will also experience as if you are touching the sky (sexual desires fulfillment). Sometime you will also feel as if you are going to fall (emotional trauma). So if you have guts then only go ahead with this ride.

Thanks. Hope you enjoyed it. Please upvote , resteem and follow me if you like it. This is really my own creative thoughts hope it may be able to ponder over "I LOVE YOU TOO" being more dangerous. Please comment your thoughts as well.

Checkout my previous blogs:
https://steemit.com/life/@shikhakesarwani/letter-to-my-future-lover
https://steemit.com/steem/@shikhakesarwani/vampire-fascination

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love is always powerfull

Loved the comparison between love and roller coaster .
But the difference is roller coaster rides end within seconds if not minutes but loves stays forever.

Yeah... thanks 😊

Welcome!

@hiyo...hello. liked your Dianasour gif 😊

Hey @shikhakesarwani
This was a Healthy read.
Love seems to be more of a Philosophical aspect,
But as you have mentioned " Sometime you will also feel as if you are going to fall (emotional trauma)" It becomes a burden to really go with it, though the probability is low.
Anyways, keep posting, more of your Opinions.
Happy Steeming !!

It's against STEEMIT ETIQUETTE to use tags that aren't related to the content of the post. And moreover the #introduceyourself tag should be used only once (which you already have multiple times) to avoid spamming the post list in the tag. Multiple posts under this tag will not give the chance or exposure to new members in the steemit community. Do not get tempted for juicy upvotes and engage in unethical behaviour. It will downgrade your steemit reputation. I've flagged all of your posts which contains introduceyourself tags. This is just a friendly warning. Remove all the introduce yourself tags except the first one and I will remove all my flags. And please don't start a flag-war or I will take this matter to all the whales of steemit. :) Keep steemit clean!

@creatovert you are sounding like a retard . You are talking as it you owns steemit . I saw your account the only thing you do is resteem people post . Be creative instead of resteeming and claiming free bucks . You talking about whales of steemit sounds like beggar saying president of the nation is my friend . Stop these things for cheap publicity and otherwise the whales only will bombard you with words you are worthy of . And please take my matter to whales of steemit , i really want to see.

@adarsh02021991
'' you are sounding like a retard''
-Thanks brother. Nothing against you. Why are you all heated up like you have just eaten a jar of spices?
"You are talking as it you owns steemit . I saw your account the only thing you do is resteem people post . Be creative instead of resteeming and claiming free bucks ."
-FYKI, With steem power of 27 SP, you get zero curation rewards. You need at least 10,000 SP to get a noticeable curation reward. Don't believe me?- Try resteeming yourself. I upvote and resteem all of my followers and my idols.
"I saw your account the only thing you do is resteem people post''
-I too saw your account the only thing you do is resteem @shikhakesarwani 's post lol :D
''You talking about whales of steemit sounds like beggar saying president of the nation is my friend . Stop these things for cheap publicity and otherwise the whales only will bombard you with words you are worthy of . And please take my matter to whales of steemit , i really want to see.''
-Lol. These whales are neither presidents nor VIP arrogants. Join their discord channel and they'll greet you and chat with you like you're their best friend. And that was not a threat dude. That was a fair warning since I often get re-flagged because I flagged them.
And Publicity? :D No no no. I get nothing except hot heated arguments and flags just because I disagree with unethical behaviour.
I have no intention to start a fight. I might have as well left a flag silently and be my own way and no one would even notice! But I left a comment to make a correction.
She has been already warned before in one of her posts. This is a repeated activity.

I understand that the natural tendency to be defensive in case of a conflict is hardwired into our brains but do think about the logical aspects before commenting anything.
I flagged it and then unflagged all of the posts after the correction was made. Tell me where I'm wrong? Just convince me and I'll give up!
And you flagged my comment here for no valid reason and you are supporting her with no base!
Let's not spread hate. Peace!

@creatovert ! please help meee! I just posted my second post and I had not seen the introduceyourself tag still lingering! Please help me remove it! Thanks a bunch!

I have removed the introduceyourself tag for this post, but I m not able to do the same for the previous post. For your kind information, I have not used it deliberately I have seen ppl using the tag even it is not their first post that why I thot it is okay to use that tag. I will ask you to flag the post of ppl who are much experienced and using it.

Unflagged everything. Nothing personal. If you see anyone doing such unethical activity then leave a warning and flag them in case of repetition. @shikhakesarwani we have to understand that if everyone follows the herd then this site will soon be a spam dumpsite. Pave your own way. You're creative. You don't need the help of these tags anyway. I have followed you. Keep steeming!