"Whether you think you can, or you think you can't—you're right." —Henry Ford
"Whether you think you can, or you think you can't—you're right." —Henry Ford
The Biggest Lie You Were Ever Told
Take a moment and close your eyes. Imagine waking up tomorrow and having a completely different life. You're in your ideal home, your bank account is overflowing, your body is in perfect condition, and you feel a deep, unwavering sense of inner peace.
Now—here's the question: How did you get there?
Most people would say, "Well, I worked hard. I grinded. I sacrificed." That's the biggest lie you've ever heard.
The truth? You don't get what you work for. You get what you ARE. And that, my friend, is why 99% of people lose the game of life. Let's break it down.
Why Hard Work Alone Will Keep You Stuck
Think about the last time you set a goal—maybe to lose weight, make more money, or improve your relationships. What did you do?
- You took action. You went to the gym. You started a business. You tried to be a better husband or wife.
- You expected that action would bring results.
- And you hoped that those results would finally make you feel fulfilled.
Sounds logical, right? But ask yourself this—why does everyone give up? Why do people gym for a couple of months, gain some mass, then suddenly fall off? Why do poor people hustle and hustle and hustle, yet stay poor? Why do people enter relationships in search of happiness, only to end up miserable again? It's because they're applying the wrong formula.
The world misled you into believing this:
DO → HAVE → BE
If I work hard (DO), I'll have success (HAVE), and then I'll be happy (BE).
That's backward. That's why you're feeling like you're on a treadmill—sprinting as fast as you can and getting nowhere.
The ultra-successful, the people who seem to warp reality, they don't play by that rule.
The Truth: The B→D→H Formula
The actual game of reality is played differently. Here's the winning formula:
BE → DO → HAVE
I become the person first (BE), then I naturally do what's right (DO), and success is guaranteed (HAVE).
Let's use the example of fitness. Most people say: "If I go to the gym (DO), I'll be fit (HAVE), and then I'll be confident (BE)." But what happens? They work out for a few months, but in their head, they still identify themselves as an out-of-shape person. Their old identity will inevitably pull them back.
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