I do believe first step in any problem is to diagnose what the matter is then work upon that issue can be resolved with an ease. Life includes variety of stages and maturity comes slowly. So, i do agree what did you state

Another thing about growing up - it's coming to accept that the rest of the world might know more than you, that the people you meet and the things that you read might have something to teach you. Not necessarily all of them, but you could treat it as a possibility.

Supremely recommended; worth reading myth of life thanks a lot @lloyddavis <3