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RE: Thoughts on my experience through "pseudo-celibacy."
You are right to exam yourself. Self-improvement is an important part of self actualization. However, in that vein, receiving pleasure from sources other that yourself is valuable also. All sources should be considered, then discarded if necessary. Just because something is conditioned does not autumatically make it wrong. You decide after deliberation.
For myself, I don't think getting pleasure from others diminishes my self worth. It enhances it. Love is the answer to lots of things.
Of course this happens. Past weekend I make a new friend and he and I clearly have an intuitive and genuine connection... Ask and thou shall receive. It's amazing how easy it can be to manifest the things we want, when we least expect it... @celsius100 It feels so nice to be cared for and loved.