Great post Nat @nat4ka . Regarding this part of your post, "when people who don't know me personally see me as a confident, party girl who has no shame and just flirt & shake her but on stage. ", all I can say is boys will be boys. And when we see a pretty girl, we loose about 40% of our thinking straight capacity.
Well, see you around. You have my upvote and follow.
Regards... @jlopezamor