understanding some of the reality of love will save you a lot of troubles.
No one can understand love fully. The closet you can get to understand it, is when you become a parent and watch how your love take off on an auto and uncontrolled rocket traveling between the past, present and future, an between your mom/dad, wife/husband and your baby/children. I think you will get to realize that there is some manipulating power behind the veil that is trying to insure the continuation of life no matter what and whether you like it or not. If you are not on this tack you are hiding for troubles.