I have never really described myself as a feminist. I do have a friend though who recently left a group of fellow INFJ types because they accused her of being misogynist because she chooses to not wear loads of makeup and high heels. Her reasoning for separating was that they were becoming far too judgy and insulting to others who don't align exactly with their way of thinking. What I have discovered is that people are just looking for something bad to point out so they have something to talk about, when in reality they probably need to spend more time holding up a mirror to their own nature.
Thanks for posting and getting the discussion started.
Best,
Mo