Some people are not yours

Let's talk about family members, but they are also never yours. Let's say your parents, brothers and sisters, they are also never yours. At some point, it seems that with age, with time, everyone becomes distant. Your own people become very distant. But even if you are far away, as long as you can give them something, that is, as long as their interests remain, you will remain close to them. But whenever your interests are exhausted, you will become distant and this is normal.

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Again, when you talk about people in your in-laws' house, there are interests there too. As long as you can do for them, as long as you can sacrifice yourself for them, you can be good to them. But whenever they cannot give anything or take care of them or anything else, then their true nature comes out. That's when you understand who is really yours. Especially the wives of the house, as long as they can take care of them, their father-in-law, mother-in-law, brother-in-law and sister-in-law are good to them. But whenever they cannot do anything, they are enemies to them. And this happens in most places. But not everyone is the same type of person.

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Finally, I will say that even our own people sometimes become alienated. Because only then can you understand that when their interests are fulfilled. As long as their interests are fulfilled, they are good to them, but whenever their interests are fulfilled, they become alienated. But it is also true that where people are soft, people give in. But where people are hard, people never get attached. As the saying goes, the devotee of the hard is the yam of the soft.

So friends, that's all for today. Stay well and healthy everyone. Thank you all.