UNDERSTANDING THE GRAVITY OF PAIN

There is a level of pains only the victim can handle and I think we need to talk about this. Some people see you going through so many things and they say they understand you, but the question is; do they really understand?

Personally, I feel the only person that understands the gravity of pain is the one going through it. Nobody really understands how it is. I understand that whatever pains we are going through, someone else had gone through it and at some point, time heals and they no longer feel the weight of the pains any longer, just the lessons, so why would we say we really understand the pains of another?

I have sat here for over 2 hours trying to put this together because I feel no body really understand the burden of carrying the heavyweight of pains and somehow, you feel there is how you can express it. You can't truly express pains but you can make a relief by maybe talking to someone.

If you are in a phase in your life where you feel the weight of it is too much, remember there is nothing your mind can't carry, you have to make sure you do not exalt the pain over your mind. You can take it, you have been there before, so why do you feel this one is going to eat you up? I have been thinking about this all day and I keep asking myself if there is any pain that can eat me up, and I have come to conclusion that there is nothing under the earth that can eat me up if I do not give it a chance.

Next time someone holds your hands when you are going through pains, just know they want to share in it, they don't necessarily have to understand, allow them share in that pain till you are relieved. Don't expect people to understand your pains, do not for any reason expect that from people.

Pain comes with weight, do not try to carry it alone, always find someone who is willing to share in that burden and not someone that understands the weight. At the end of the day, smile because you are all you need to get through every pain whatsoever. Do not gratify pains, let life's blessing echo resilience over pains, don't struggle, give yourself a reasonable time and you will be marvelled how light the pain was.