A REASON TO LEAVE YOUR CAVE

You know there is a point you will be broken that making friends seems to be the hardest thing you could do but I bet you it's one of the best bait you can take. I was once like that due to stigmatization and everything. Always crawling back to my cave after the day's activities and would never think of making friends because I was always scared of what others would think of me.

I have come to realize there is this weakness we have and we think it's being strong, we often misplaced them. If you are hurt and then you think every other person out there is like that, you are not just condemning people, you are welcoming weakness into your life by generalizing everything. There were people in your shoes and don't you think they should stay in their caves for their entire lives?

I haves seen people that have been hurt over and over again, but they haven't put their backs down and think the world is so wicked beyond redemption. But I have also seen people that have faced disappointment from people and till date they still have PTSD. I know I can't really tell people how to react to disappointment but what I will tell you is that Mr B can't be Mr A, so the constant generalization is just you giving yourself more reasons to remain in your cave.

The more you keep saying everybody are the same, the more you keep being in your cave till the day you decide to make up your mind to be you and face your hurt. I have said it before that you can't really help on how people treat you but you can choose what to do with it. Free yourself from the burden of thinking everybody that comes to your life are here to hurt you. Honestly, there are some angels in human form that will hold your hands against the odd.

You do not have to believe me but there are people you meet and not because they have money to give you but just their presence in your life changes everything. There are people that are in your life just to rewire you to evolve, there are some that are there to be a shoulder to lean on when the tides get tough and even when you are smiling. Do not expect an anchor to be a financier and vice versa.

Be so emotionally mature that you discern the kind of people in your life. When you are able to know that Mr A is doing this in your life and Mr B is doing this in your life, you will understand that there are things you won't be expecting from both as you already know what and what they can't or can do.

Don't you think it's time to come out of your cave friend? You have been there for too long and it has been eating you so deep, just take a leap of faith and take a lesson from whatever put you there. Relate with people because it is from strategic relationships that your life will take a shape. I just hope I am able to motivate one or two persons today.