Assalamu Alaikum

My dear friends, how are you all? I hope everyone is very well. I am also well, Alhamdulillah, by the grace of Allah.

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Like every day, today I have come before you with another new post. Today I will share a general writing post with you all. Previously, I have shared many general writings with you which you liked very much. So today I am sharing another general writing with you.

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Today I have come to you with a truly wonderful post. I hope you will like the post that I am sharing with you today. When you carefully read everything in this post, I believe it will bring a lot of information to you. Here you will see some topics that I think you will like very much. Many of us once had many friends. But now many people hardly have any friends at all.

In this case, when we rise step by step, our number of friends increases. Again, for many people, the number of friends decreases. When we were very young and confined within our own area, the friends we used to play with were from our own home and nearby surroundings. At that time, friends from other places were not with us. Most of the time, we used to walk around and play with friends from our surrounding area. With them, we had a beautiful life.

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But when we come out of that life and move up to the primary level, that is, when we start our school life, we get many new friends there. They come from many different places. When friends come to us from new places, we get to know them. They become our friends. In some cases, we have conflicts with some people. Again, with some, a good bonding is formed. As a result, many people become deeply attached to our lives. Again, many people move away from there, and in this way, many friends are gained and many are lost.

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The moments we enjoy at that time are truly wonderful. At that time, there is no kind of arrogance within us. We always remain involved in things that we can enjoy beautifully. And if we enjoy everything nicely, then there is no reason to feel arrogant or proud about anything. But after some time, when we move up from one level to another, we see that some friends become a bit arrogant. They have so much arrogance that they do not have the mentality to talk to each other or spend time together.

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And slowly, when this issue increases a lot, many cracks are created in friendships. These cracks become so deep that there is nothing left to call a friendship, nor does one feel the need to talk about that friendship anymore. At the same time, many incidents occur here that may remain hidden from many people. But if we observe one thing here, we will see that some friends come from relatively well-off family backgrounds. They come from families that may have given them a lot of money. There may be lakhs of taka in their accounts. But they become so arrogant about these things that they start showing them off to their friends.

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And in this case, if they show these things and say something in such a way that their arrogance of money is clearly and excessively expressed, then that friendship cannot survive in any way. And this is one of the major problems that cause cracks in friendships. And this problem can never be solved. Because when arrogance of money enters someone, and when they repeatedly display that arrogance in front of people, it is never possible to repair that relationship. If a relationship is destroyed once, it becomes impossible to mend it again. As a result, many beautiful relationships are destroyed.