Assalam o alaikum..

When i was younger i always thought my parents were very strict.They did not allow me to go out with friends whenever i wanted.They always asked where i was going who I was with and when j would come back. At that time i felt angry and thought they did not trust me.I used to compare my life with others and felt that my friends had more freedom than me.My parents also focused a lot on my studies. They would reminded me agains and again to complete my homework wake up early and avoided wasting times. Sometimes I felt tired of hearing the same things every day. I thought they were putting too much pressured on me and not understandings my feelings.

But as i started growing older my thinking slowly changed. I began to understand the reason behind their strict behavior.I realized that they were not trying to control me but they were trying to protect me. The world outside is not always safe and they wanted me to stay away from bad influences and wrong decisions.One day i saw one of my friends facing problems because of too much freedom and no guidance. That moment made me think deeply about my own life.I understood that my parents rules were actually helping me stay on the right path. Their strictness was a form of care not punishment.

Now when i looks back i feel thankful for everything they did for me.Because of their disciplined I learned time management respect and responsbility.They taught me the value of hard working and honesty. Even when they scolded me it was never out of angers alone but out of love and concern for my future.Stricts parents may not always show their love in soft words but their actions speaks louder.They sacrifice their own comfort to makes sure we have a better life.They worry about us even when we don’t noticed it.Their strictness is like a shield that protects us from hartm.

Today i have a betters relationship with my parents because i understands them more.I try to listen to them and respect their advice.I also shared my feelings with them which has made our bond stronger.I believes strict parents are not our enemies.They are our biggest supporters.Their rules and discipline shaped our future in a positive way. We may not always like their decisions but one day we will realized that they truly care the most.