SEC-S30W1: Family Bonding Activities

Greetings Dear Steemians!!

Hopefully everyone will be great here and enjoying healthier and happier life with family and friends. By the grace of Almighty Allah, I am also good along with my adorable kids. Firstly , I would like to congrats @ngoenyi for selecting again in season 30 . It was really lucky one time for you to come with epic themes. That's motivated me to participate in your challenge being a parents. Hopefully my participation will be considered meaningful and justifying the mentioning questions.

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Eating meals together (with no phones)

In global era, Everyone is used to watch cartoons , movies and shorts no matter they are Kids, youngsters or senior's. That's really bad impact on thier health. Without using phone to eat is very good habit.

My elderly says absolutely right that kids can eat by their own hands in the company of thier same age group's. This is really true , in that picture you can see that how happily kids are eating meal together and that's fantastic way to develop unity and integrity in healthier and friendly environment. Kids can develop deep association and loving bonding together.

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Cooking or baking as a family

Whenever I cook meal for my kids. My kids watch me and follow..I never ever stop and regret to do something productive because I know that these are the learning stage of my kids. For thier healthier growth and development family support and guidance is very important for them .

My youngest son is very close toy heart . He loves to engage any healthy activity with me. He feel happy , confident and comfortable with me by doing different daily activities that's develop more affiliation and respect in family relationship.

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Talking about the day (highs & lows),

I live in joint family system. Where in Presence of elders are the glory of the home. Kids sit with them and enjoy to hear about their past .

Sometimes, parent's didn't get time for thier kids to sit for a long time because of some household chores and tough responsibilities, on thier behalf , presence of elders who are most seniors also feel energetic and happy in the company of kids. They together share thier daily life experience and give respect and value thier views and thoughts. That's the best moments to enhance love , trust , respect and strong bonding together.

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Watching a movie or TV show together

Instead to give Iphones and Ipads to kids individually, It's prefer to sit next to kids and watch family friendly animated movies and series .

There is so much unethical videos that badly and negatively impact on kids mentally growth. That's why tv is the good option to watch family movies with the presence of thier parents or elders. That's develop sense of humor and belongings and enhance family affiliation.

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Doing household projects (cleaning, organizing, decorating

Yes!! My kids also love to clean the home by thier own self. They learn and practically do what they see by doing thier own parents. I lovey home and prefer to clean my home because being mother, I know better hygiene of my kids. My kids also actively working with me and thier grandpa to clean the home , taking care of plants by giving to them water and washed the car.

Kids feel happy , comfortable, confidence and become more civilized when they learn engage thier self in healthy activities. Kids develop strong bonding and good decision making skills.

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Your family is to select 3 activities from the ones listed above and tell us which ones you have selected. Carry it out as a family and tell us how you did them

In our daily life routine , we have perfumed all activities in different manners and on different times. They all are important for the kids fantastic and educational learning.

Along with these , in our sphere time , I also give my time to Kids for any healthy creativity. They develop confidence and interpersonal skills. That's also good opportunity to develop art talent and develop affiliation parents.

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What are the challenges involved in getting everyone to do this activities together & What are the gains

My affiliation with my kids are very strong. We mutually involved together in different home activities that are good for their mentally growth and strong personality. I never ever feel any challenge or any difficulty to perform any activity. Because we have good understanding and we give respect each other's ideas and views.

Through this engagement, we gain healthy relationship and feel of happiness and insightful peace. Because kids are blessings of Almighty Allah, Thier presence makes life beautiful and more colorful.

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Who in the family enjoyed these activities the most? Did it help to bond your family together in a special way

My youngest son especially enjoy because he is most young and most engaging kid in home. After that the elders of them who Are very old they feel more happy and energetic in the company of kids.

Yes!! Off course, by engaging kids in daily life activities they make kids civilized, responsible, sensible and confidence. They give respect to each other's and develop sense of belonging in relationships.

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My parents used to say that kids are TFD means that they are tension free device in thier company they forget any pain of life and hardships of life. Their presence also very important for the kids learning. Engaging to them in daily life different activities develop more enthusiasm to work more productive and develop strong bonding with family

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In the end , I would like to invite my Steemit fellows @memamun , @ahsansharif and @jimiaera02 for the valuable feedback and participation. Thank you!!

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