Assalamu Alaikum. Greetings Sri Lankan community. How are you all? I hope by the grace of Allah, you are all doing well. Alhamdulillah, by the grace of Allah, I am also doing well. I pray to Allah, the Creator, that we may always be well.

Today I come to you with a heavy heart to write a blog. Today's topic is that not everyone in the world deserves love. Basically, this is a blog written from my real-life experience.

This world is very selfish. In a selfish world, some people deserve to be loved and some do not. There are some things in the world that constantly disappoint us.

Only those people in the world are neglected who love others a lot. It is not possible to get love from people by force. If someone does not love you or does not like you, then you should never try to get their love by force. Because if someone does not give love, their love cannot be obtained by force. The more love is tried to be obtained, the more that person increases the amount of neglect.

In this selfish world, we should never fear getting love. Love is something that depends on our hearts. If the person we love with our emotions does not like us, then we should definitely move away from that person. Although the matter is very complicated and difficult in the first place, we will not benefit by getting on the wrong train. If we get on the wrong train in our life, the further we go, the further our way back will become. In the same way, in our real life, the more we fall in love with the wrong person, the sooner we should come back from there. If we cannot come back from there quickly, then there are signs of a very bad effect on our lives. After getting on the wrong train, the further away the station will be and the more difficult it will be for us to come back. In the same way, if after loving a person, that person neglects us, then we have to come back from there very quickly. Because as the days go by, the amount of neglect will increase.

Not everyone in this world is worthy of love. Love is created through the love and harmony of two minds. If one person likes and the other criticises, then there is no chance to go to the criticised person a second time. Because the more times we go to him, the more we have to be neglected.

I have seen in my own real life, the more hatred and neglect I received from the person I loved, admired and respected constantly. Basically, I wrote this blog today in harmony with my wife in my real life.

I have set an example myself, even after loving my wife so much, I could not keep or make a place in her heart. The more I love her, the more she neglects me. I love her with all my emotions and respect in life. But at the end of the day, I have received nothing but hatred from my wife.

Even after that, I go back to the person who does not value my words, does not respect me. I do not know why she goes back? But the relationship we have cannot be the relationship between a husband and wife. How can a relationship survive like this when one loves so much and the other neglects so much??

So if you, too, have one-sided love like me, then come back from there now. Because without coming back from there, you can never find happiness in life. Although it is challenging to return to the original state, Ibelievek thatwithu practice, you will succeed one day and a good day will comeinton your life.

Actually, selfish people do not deserve love. Just as their minds are strong, we also have to have a strong mind. Otherwise, it is impossible to survive in this world.