Assalamu Alaikum. Greetings Sri Lankan community. How are you all. I hope that by the grace of Allah, you are all doing well. Alhamdulillah, by the grace of Allah, I am also doing well. I pray to the Creator that we are always doing well.

Today I have come to share a real life blog with you. Basically, we have to face various situations in our real life. When we want to lead life, we have to face various problems. If we want to solve the problems, we have to take several steps.

Sometimes, there are some stages in our life that we can never overcome. Especially, people can never change on their own.

A young man gets married. Before marriage, he has one kind of nature and characteristics. After marriage, his characteristics and nature become different. People say that after marriage, that boy has changed. But in fact, it is not possible to change on his own. People cannot change their position on their own. Time and circumstances improve and change the position of people.

Our life is like a car. Wherever the platform it gets will take the form of that platform. Just like our life plays the same characteristics and roles. Wherever life needs to be managed, our life is managed in the same way.

It is never possible to change in life by itself. There are many people among us who always criticize people. They have a lot of headaches about what a person is doing now and what he will do next. Especially if you know one thing, you will be surprised, our brain is built in such a way that it helps us change according to time and situation. Whenever and wherever the situation prevails, our brain can accept the same idea and change its position. Our path in life becomes very complicated. Again, sometimes everything becomes so simple that it is not worth explaining.

Life is like a railway car. It is never possible to stop its course. The more we try to stop the course of life, the more life will continue to move at its own pace. So we cannot lead life at a long speed or by force.

A person always loves his own position. A child is born and he gradually grows up in the society. He grows up under the care of the family. Here the family's responsibility is only to take care of him and the person automatically changes himself.

Then when a person grows up and gets married, another change can be observed in him. Life before marriage and life after marriage can give a person a lot of knowledge.

Then let's talk about old age. A person behaves like a young person but in old age he is full of knowledge. In old age, a person cannot behave like a young person.

Behavioral nature and human change are all automatic. An unemployed young man constantly sits and lies down. But at the end of the day, one thing can be observed. When pressure comes on his head, he finds work himself and works to improve his position.

Everything is happening automatically in this world. Only one person is managing this entire world and he is the creator. So we humans can never change ourselves. Our position automatically improves and changes. People can never work to improve their position themselves. People can only try. Change is determined by the Creator.