Change for Love?

Greetings sisters and brothers of the beautiful Steem Venezuela community. I'm Enoobong and it's my first post on this community. I hope you find it fun to read.

Today I'm participating on a contest by @anasuleidy on the question "Change for Love?". I have few questions to answer ;

Do you consider or believe that falling in love with someone changes the way we see life?

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There is a trending couple on the Nigerian-Tanzanian internet that married this year. Their name "JP25". Tanzanian singer, Juma Jux wedded Nigerian actress Priscilla Ojo. The singer said that before meeting Priscilla, he used to see life as a boring, undesirable and tragic situation where people dont get what they deserve. When he met Priscilla, his perspective of life changed. He views life with joy and enthusiasm now. So yea, I believe falling in love changes the way we see life.

Do you think that for love we can change aspects of our lives?

Yes I do. If a casanova falls in love with a woman he intends to take seriously and walk down the isle with, he'll change his lifestyle for her.

Do we think that when we change something in our lives, we do it for that person we love or for our own initiative?

If there's a Romeo or Juliet in our lives and we change one apsect of it to something more favourable, then we're doing it for the person we love but if you're a singlehood ambassador and you change something about yourself, youre doing it on your own initiative.

How good or bad is it to change an aspect of our life to please that person we fell in love with?

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It depends on the kind of change we're talking about. Some changes could make you while others could mar you.

If you change your terrible attitude maybe insolence or kleptomaniac tendencies or revealing clothing to respectfulness,non-theft acts and appropriate dressing just to please your partner, then you've been made. Such change is helpful and your partner should be appreciated for helping you out.

On the other hand, if you begin to apply bleaching creams to attain your lover's perspective of a beautiful skin color, or get loans to dress luxuriously and extravagantly as your partner would like or you begin to go to clubs just so your partner would still like you and not dump you, then youre being marred.

We have to tread carefully in relationships so as not to toed in the wrong path.

Is it worth changing for the love of another person or do you think people should be accepted the way we are?

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Firstly, we should be accepted the way we are. If the other person sees our lifestyle or something about us needs refurbishing, then out of love it can be done.

On the contrary, doing things just so we could be noticed or loved by another person who has shown zero interest in us should not be encouraged.

I invite @bossj23, @alysaa and @khayjhay to participate via https://steemit.com/hive-193637/@anasuleidy/concurso-cambiar-por-amor