Is silence more powerful than speaking out?

in Steem4Nigeria12 days ago

I must say that I strongly believe silence is more powerful than speaking out, especially in situations like tension, conflict, or emotional pressure. We live in a world where the act of speaking out for oneself is seen as possessing courage, that's not wrong, but silence when choosing wisely is capable of communicating maturity, strength, and self-control, which has more effects than words.

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I don't actually classify silence as being weak; rather, I have you deliberate on silence as a process that can influence individuals and outcomes in a positive way. Throughout my life, I have come to realize that silence can prevent unnecessary damage while spoken words can charm and nurture relationships, and reduce opportunities.

With the act of silence, there can be an adequate reflection on emotional control. In our day-to-day life, we notice that when individuals start an argument, they will remain silent. It's often seen as a person who is composed and confident, but the individual who continues speaking without reasoning shows poor judgment and even insecurity. All I'm saying is that silence is encouraged to calm heated situations where speaking out would make things worse.

A clear example was the time a soldier in the barracks used the power of silence. Instead of fighting back at his fellow soldier about an issue, he decided to be silent and maintain peace. His refusal to give an aggressive response drew the attention of his superiors and caused those in charge to listen to his point of view. His silence had bridged the point where responding would have made things worse.

This experience that I got with my own eyes was the time my classmate John was falsely accused of stealing Anita's notebook, and he didn't steal the notebook; he refused to respond immediately, as it could escalate issues. John remained calm and silent to allow the truth have its way. This made his teachers and classmates like the way he reacted to the situation. In most cases those who tend to keep speaking lose their credibility, while the silent are often proven right.

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Some individuals see silence as allowing injustice to have control over society. This can be true in some cases, but it only remains true when you are forced to be silent; as long as you are not being forced or misusing silence, it will be visible that it is more powerful than speaking out. Silence is not about over-speaking, it's rather about speaking when it truly matters.

Benefits Of Silence

  1. Silence is powerful as it shows self-control rather than weakness.

  2. Silence allows others to reflect on their spoken words rather than react immediately.

  3. Silence helps to prevent conflicts.

  4. Silence is a good way of remaining focused and protecting your dignity.

In essence, silence possesses a greater power than speaking out because it reveals self-control, commands respect, and prevents rejection. While words could be ignored, meaningful silence causes attention, and using silence well will keep you in control of any situation.

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