ENGAGEMENT…HOW SHOULD IT BE

Hello my friends, how are you doing? I hope you are all doing well? This is my first time in writing in this community, I came across this contest and I made up my mind to participate, so I will be telling you all I know about engagement.

In my definition engagement is simply defined as when a lover come together to know themselves and to prepare their self for marriage.

In my country "NIGERIA" it is normal for a lady or a guy to be engaged at they age of 18, it does not matter they age, it matters how they are both matured, and they are able to understand themselves. But they nomal age to be angaged is 20 and above that for me.

In a relationship they are things you consider before accepting they person you love, here are them;

• Maturity
• TRUST
• Age
• Character
• Family background

This are they important things to be considered before accepting a relationship.

It is right for both lovers to stay for like 1 year before making their decision, so that they can study and know each other well. It very important because in future they won't regrets any of their actions.

Yes they're things that can change the guy or the lady minds, maybe it can be they character of both sex, and each of them can't handle it right.
They most important thing that can change the both sex mind is "CHARACTER"AND "TRUST".
It they worse thing that can happen in a relationship.

Sometimes engagement can lead to marriage because if they relationship is growing well the both couple will love themselves so much and it can be lead to marriage. But engagement is not a guarantee to marriage. Because something can happen and they both sex will show their real self. Maybe it can be misunderstanding, lack of money to take care of themselves, it can lead to break up of they relationship. In a relationship once should be ready to face what the see. They most important thing is trust in a relationship, if they is no trust that relationship won't last for a long time.

So friends that all I know about ENGAGEMENT, I hope have done a nice job. Thanks for reading.

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I invite three people to participate in this contest
@mesola, @imohpeters, @imoh