*Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week131: Dealing With An Ingrate
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From Pakistan🇵🇰.
“In your own understanding, define who an ingrate is..”
It's not that it's a disease, but I've study this a lot because I know about it and I know that when you create a very good and great opinion of yourself or of people and you think what to do if I make a mistake, take care of me and treat me well no matter what I do, then we increase our expectations from people and then we didn't recieve same. When we don't get the emotions we have with equality, we start to criticize what we have.we add ingratitude inside .
“Have you ever dealt with one in the past? if yes, kindly share your experience..”
Yes, absolutely my experience with this is quite bad, as I told you how bad it is to be ingrate and to be ungrateful is also a big sin in some way because my mother had diabetes many years ago but her feet used to hurt so she mostly used to say that one day my legs will stop moving, my legs will stop moving. I used to argue a lot with my mother about this and I used to tell her, are you ungrateful to God just by saying that your legs will stop moving when your legs work perfectly. Sometimes it is normal for them to hurt.
And I knew better because she is so ingrate to God and is repeating the same thing over and over again, so all this will definitely happen to her and that is what happened. Last two months ago, her health deteriorated a lot. When we took her to the hospital, her leg stopped walking. Even then, I had an argument with my mother about the same thing. I said that you were ungrateful and took control of what was on her and that thing happened to her. Now she regrets it because she was ungrateful. That is why when I started posting about this post to you, I told you that I can tell you much better after that because I have bad experience..
“What lessons did you learn from your experience with that ingrate?.”
It's not that I didn't learn anything from it, but I learned how your own words hurt you or your ingratitude becomes your biggest sin. I feel a lot of pain when I see my mother in this state, but I knew that her words had come back to haunt her or that her ingratitude had caused her harm. Before that, I was also very worried about my nose. I thought that whenever I had my picture taken, my nose looks terrible. One day, I shared this with my cousin. She told me, "Big sis, there's no need to say that because I'm going to ruin my face.she said" Once, my face got so bad that my skin started to peel off. That's when my heart got really scared. I always avoided saying anything that would be too much for me.
“Would you do good to others regardless in spite of your past experience with an ingrate?.”
If you look at it, there are two types of ingratitude: either you are ungrateful to God or you are ungrateful to other human beings. My experience of ingratitude is something like this, as I told you, I saw my mother being ungrateful to God, but there is also something like this, where some people, after taking help from other people, behave in such a way that they have nothing to do with it. Because I remember that when I was little, I had a friend who could not read or write at all and would always come to me with her phone. As soon as I would help her in paper work she said hmmm i knew it before how to do it, . Instead of thanks, she would tell everyone that I done my paper work by myself So I felt very bad about what she said and so I never thought of doing it again. So I made it a rule from my life that I would not do anything to a person who is ungrateful.Now, it's not that I wanted to take some money from her or that I wanted her to acknowledge my kindness. I just wanted her to say a small thank you, so I would have been grateful and that would have been a way to help a person.if she didn't want to say thank you At least don't say in front of people that she was doing it all herself, that she didn't need anyone's help.
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