When Life Gets Busy for the Right Reasons

in Steem4Nigeria17 days ago

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I have been quiet recently, not due to a lack of words, but because life required me to engage in ways that were more significant than sharing updates. In the last few days, my time and energy were devoted to a friend's wedding. It was hectic, exhausting, emotional, and profoundly beautiful in ways I hadn't anticipated.

Weddings are often viewed as just a day of celebration, but being involved in one shows you that it is so much more. There were early mornings, countless conversations, running errands, solving small issues that suddenly felt huge, and sharing laughter in times when fatigue should have taken over. There were also serene moments, pauses filled with prayer, deep breaths, and silent appreciation for friendship.

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Seeing my friend get ready for marriage awakened something within me. I realized that love isn't just a flawless concept; it's a conscious decision made with bravery, hope, and trust. True love isn't always loud. Often, it manifests in patience, collaboration, and the readiness to stand by someone during tough times when feelings run high.

What impacted me the most was the strength of friends and family. Family in their own little way contributed greatly to make sure this union stands, it was unlike the last wedding I witnessed. Friends united with various skills, personalities, and roles, making sure to see all planned events fulfilled. I am just so excited to see the commitment, and the dedication put in to this preparations by everyone with love.

Being part of this wedding preparations reminded me of the importance of being present. In a world that always pushes for productivity and online presence, it was refreshing to just be there, no hurry, no show, just genuine moments happening. Some memories are too precious to rush or edit. They should be experienced first and shared later, if at all.

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As the holiday season goes on, this experience has given me a greater sense of gratitude. Thankful for friendships that deepen over time, for love that believes in forever, and for moments that take us out of our routines and remind us of what truly matters. Sometimes, being busy isn’t a distraction, it’s a blessing.

To my friend and her partner, I wish you a home filled with peace, laughter, patience, and lasting love. May your journey together be guided by wisdom and strengthened by friendship. And to everyone reading this, may we all learn to be more present for love, for people, and for the moments that quietly but profoundly shape our lives. More update on the wedding proper loading.....

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Hi.

I love weddings because they're such beautiful events, full of joy and happiness.
Marrying the person you love is a dream come true.
I hope all your wishes and goals come true this new year.

Nice post, my lady. 😀

Thank you sir,,,

Just wait till you see the wedding proper

May Jehovah God bless their union, may their together be 1+1=1 and not 2, may the unite together as one family I also which them more peace, love, togetherness, more laughter with patience, may the filled with wisdom and understanding to each other and forever lasting love....

Amen,,,,

Thank you so much

I like how you smile and your make this light and cool, which matches your skin, am also happy for your friends who are getting married.

Thank you

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 12 days ago 

Saludos amiga espero estés bien, que excelente persona eres al ayudar a tu amiga en todos sus preparativos para su boda que me imagino para ella fue un sueño hecho realidad, lindas fotos un abrazo.