Contest Alert : Self-control

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Briefly explain this topic self control to a layman.

Self control is the act of being able to control your self wether in time of anger or being happy.

Self control helps us to behave well in our lives and community or any where we find ourselves. Especially when we are angry it helps us to control our anger, actions decision and words that we will not regret letter in our lives.

How do you know someone that have self control ?

It's very simple to know someone that have self control by behavior of that person both in side and out side of the house tell you that this person has self control. And also when someone is angry the way he or she handles the situations tell a whole lot of how self control that person is.

As I am now, since I understand what this life is all about I come to a conclusion that some times life can be sweet and bitter some time also.

The way I use to handle some situations now is not the way I use to before. Especially when I'm angry because there are some action you took and later regret. this days before I take any silly actions I make sure that I'm not the one at fault to avoid regret.

Is self control an inborn behavior or it's learned? Support your answers with factsi

I don't think self control is an inborn behavior. It's learn character and behavior. Because I believe that every child growing up will definitely like to do what he or she sees his fellow children are doing.

But when he or she is being controlled and curssion by his or her parents definitely the child will learn what is called self control and grow with it. Although it's always difficult at the tender age to have a self control.

How far can you control yourself in the face of temptation and challenges?

Life is all about challenges. It depends on how tempted the challenges is. Like in my house sometime when I have some argument or quarrel with my husband and I'm sure that I'm not at fault but him being a man and the head of the family. The best thing i do to control my anger is by walking away.

Because I know that if I continue to stand or talk with him, it will lead to one thing or the other which me or both of us will regret letter.

Or out side my home when someone is tempting I like walking away. Not because I'm weak but to control my anger towards the situation at hand.

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