Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 136: If I Could Change One Thing.
What is that one thing you wish you could change in your past?
Stubbornness is one thing I will like to change in my life. When I was little I don't accept any one to challenge me not to talk of burrying me. Even In the school whether boy a girl I don't give you chance to do me something and go Free we must fight until we get tired.
Even in the house I remember when I fight with one of my big cousin because she ask me to do something for her and I refused on the process of the fight I got injured by a broken bottles that my aunt have to take me to the clinic to give me tetanus injection.
Why do you wish you could change it? What went wrong?
I want to change it because all my child wood it has been fighting here fighting there. Till the extend that I was given a title in the school. Haha
And stubbornness has cost me a lot of damage when I was little. But now I grow up I have come to realize that being a stubborn person will not lead me to anywhere especially as a girl child who suppose to be under a man. And I don't like or want my children to inherite it from me because it's going to be a disrespect to my man.
What lesson did you learn from that experience?
I learnt that if I continue to be stubborn and fight with who so ever that wrong me it will affect my family especially my children may inherite it that the junior will find it difficult to respect the senior one. Not only that, it will also affect me as the mother. So I don't see any good in being stubborn. That is why I'm a good person now.
How has that moment shaped the person you are today?
It has really shaped me today very well because I don't see any good or achievement in being stubborn. Because of stubbornness I have lost so many things and a good relationship with people.
And I'm also trying to control my children from being stubborn especially my second son that really looks like me.
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