Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 120: What I Will Do Differently This Year
Were there things you felt you didn't do well in the previous year, and how did they affect you? |
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Looking back at the previous year, I can honestly say there were areas where I didn’t do as well as I wanted to. While I was committed to my work and daily responsibilities, I barely had time for my kids and my hubby, and this almost brought emotional strain to my marriage. Inside me, I felt lost; there were moments when I felt I could have managed my time and energy better. Sometimes I focused so much on meeting the needs of others, like attending to my clients, that I neglected my own growth, rest, and creativity. This affected me emotionally, because I often felt tired and stretched, even though I was doing my best to care for my work and my family's well-being.
What were the limiting factors or the cause of the poor outcome? Do you know better now? |
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The main limiting factors were exhaustion, divided attention, and self-doubt. Balancing my work with caring for my family, especially being present and supportive to my husband and kids, was not always easy. There were days I couldn't look my husband in the eyes when household duties, work pressure, and emotional responsibilities all competed for my attention. At times, fear of not doing enough—or not doing things perfectly—led to delays or reduced confidence, of which my husband started complaining. Now, I know better. I’ve learned that balance is intentional, and that taking care of myself helps me show up better for my husband, my family, and my work.
Is there a need for you to do those things better this year, or do you now consider them irrelevant? |
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This year, I believe some things truly deserve to be done again, but with more wisdom and calm. I want to work more consistently, improve my skills, and still create time to nurture my marriage and family life. Being more intentional with my time, communicating better with my husband, and setting healthy boundaries are goals I’m carrying forward. However, I’m choosing to let go of habits that no longer serve me—overworking, overthinking, and unnecessary guilt. Those things are now irrelevant to the woman I want to be.
How do you feel about the new year, generally? |
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Generally, I feel peaceful and hopeful about the new year. I’m stepping into it with a softer heart but a stronger mindset. This year feels like a fresh beginning where I can grow professionally, love deeply, and live more intentionally. I’m embracing the new year with gratitude, faith, and a renewed commitment to my family, my husband, and my purpose. 🌷
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