Popular Opinion — Be Accurate and Convincing

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‎Hello steemians and fellow members of steem4nigeria community welcome to my blog, greetings to everyone. I'm here to share my views on this topic for this week. I want to thank @steem4nigeria for organizing this wonderful contest. this will give me the opportunity to express all that was kept inside of me concerning this topic. I love this topic. I just hope you enjoy reading my contribution.

Men are scum and Women are snakes and can't be trusted. Respond in a convincing way either for or against.

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‎First and foremost, you world mirrors your view.
‎The way you view your world is exactly how it works for you. In my honest opinion, men are demigods and women are angels, or God-sent. We were not designed to do life alone. We need other people to survive, to grow, and to become who we are meant to be.
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‎If you talk down on other people because of a few negative experiences with only one or two individuals, you will keep missing the opportunity to meet the right people. One bad chapter does not mean the whole book is ruined. When you generalize your pain, you build walls that keep good people out.
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‎Only damaged people see men as scum and women as snakes. I am a man, and I want to let you know that you need someone to build with. But you cannot build anything lasting on a cracked foundation. If you do not work on yourself first, you will keep getting frustrated when you meet new people. You will use your traumatized past to push them out of your life before they even get a chance to show you who they really are.
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‎Relationships and marriage are built on trust. If you keep letting your past control you, you will not be able to deal with your future. You will remain stuck, living in fear, frustration, or resentment, while life moves on without you. Healing is not pretending you were never hurt. It is choosing not to bleed on people who did not cut you.
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‎It is good to stay positive and move on with a clean slate so you do not let the right people slip out of your hands. If you do not trust other people, you cannot do business with them without developing fear. And fear can sabotage your opportunity to meet great people, form strong bonds, and create the life you actually want.
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‎From my experience in life, I would say I have met so many kind people because of my genial lifestyle. Whoever wants friends should first make himself friendly. The energy you give is often the energy you get back. So no, men are not scum and women are not snakes. People are people, flawed, hopeful, and capable of good. Your view decides which ones you find.
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Social media is bad and should not be used. It can change one's thinking negatively. Respond either for or against.

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‎Social media is not bad. It depends entirely on the user. Social media is like money. Some people always say, “The love of money is the root of all evil.” That is a misquote and a misconception. Money itself is neutral. Social media is exactly the same. It cannot be bad on its own. It all depends on how users choose to use it.
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‎In my view, social media has done more good than harm. I cannot even begin to list the endless possibilities it has brought to us. I remember what we went through in the era before social media. Communication was slow, opportunities were limited, and talent often died in obscurity. But the emergence of social media has solved a lot of those problems. It connected the disconnected and gave a voice to the voiceless.
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‎Personally, I am an artist. I paint, draw, craft, and print. Without the help of social media, I would not have the connections I now have with people from faraway countries. If not for these platforms, I would only be celebrated by people who already knew me. My art would stay within the four walls of my city. But social media has given me the visibility and exposure I needed. I do not mean to sound braggadocious, but with the help of social media, I have become an international person. My work now travels farther than I ever have.
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‎There is nothing wrong with social media unless you make it so. It has impacted me and so many other people positively. I have learned countless crafts and handiwork skills from various social media platforms. Tutorials, communities, and mentors are now just a click away.
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‎Even the emergence of artificial intelligence is another technological innovation, or a miracle, as Christians would say. Social media helps distribute. From learning to earning, from isolation to community, social media is a bridge. Whether you cross it or burn it is up to you.
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‎Thank you for reading my contribution. What has social media done for you?
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‎I like to use this opportunity to invite my friends just to participate in the contest.
‎They are :
‎@josepha
‎@thaizmaita
‎@mercybliss
‎@bossj23 and
‎@m-princess
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‎I hope you like my post. Thanks for going through my post and blog. Keep steeming 💙
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