do you know how to get 1000's of upvotes in steemit ? do you wanna have a big number in upvotes ?

when i first joined just a month ago more or less i was looking how to get 1000's of upvotes
the answer i found was simple i need to make 1000's of friends here people who will follow my blogs and upvoted me too
and the way i found was by giving a nice honest comment in their blogs first before they will visit my blog
as we all know people it's emotional so the majority of us will always feel touch with some nice detail from others
even as men we have some feelings like this, although some will be so firm and not give a upvote to your blogs because they are
looking for a super nice and great blog that they finally found it interesting
however let's be straight here and honest we all need some reward or else we can be in the other social media where we won't find any reward , right?
so guys yes we look for the people who give us a nice comment , give us a upvote, and follow our blogs as well

to set an example in this , let's say you look always with good attentions to some person and always give a nice compliments and give all what you have but this person in exchange just simply ignore you , what will happen after 1 month ? or a year ?
would you still look for this person insisting your self to be so nice but this person keep ignoring you ?
honestly mostly people will just move on and find another person , right ?
probably some will say i don't care i won't give you my upvote , and i won't give you my comment , fine ! out there it's millions who will do it , so yeah all what we need in conclusion it's work with the nice people who quickly give you a nice comment and upvote and make good relationship , and long lasting friendships.

please guys give me a comment good or bad still it's good :)
have a wonderful day