I have looked at others a lot, now I will look in the mirror a little

Good morning, all my friends, how are you all? Of course, I pray and wish that you are all very good and healthy, and always be well in illness. These days, I am thinking a lot about one thing. Do you know what it is? What do we actually do all day? If you pay attention, you will see that a large part of our day is spent looking at other people. It can be on the street, in the office, in chats, or on social media screens.

We see people, observe their behavior, and judge them in our minds. Why did so-and-so say this, why did so-and-so do that—we are so immersed in all these thoughts that we sometimes forget to notice the real person. Who knows that real person? Me.

Recently, I have been feeling the meaning of a saying very deeply, "Notice all people, especially yourself the most."

When you hear this saying, at first,t you may think, why is there any point in looking at yourself again? I know myself! But to be honest, we do not know ourselves as much as we think. Our eyes are always outward, much like the lens of a camera. Just as the lens takes pictures of everything outside but cannot see ourselves, so is our situation. If we see other people's small mistakes, we can discuss them for hours, but we do not notice our own huge mistakes.

Observing others is not a bad thing. We learn from people's lives. Who behaves beautifully, who is patient in danger, and who destroys relationships in anger - we can learn many lessons in life by observing these. But this observation will be worthwhile only when I shed the light of that learning on myself.

When I started observing myself, I felt a strange change. Earlier, if someone mistreated me, I would immediately get angry and blame them. But now I think, "Well, did any of my own behavior provoke him? Could I have handled the situation differently?" Whenever I question myself, I see that I also have many shortcomings. When my own mistakes become clear before my eyes, complaints against others decrease. A strange peace works in the mind.

Self-observation means talking to your conscience. If we give ourselves just five minutes before going to bed at the end of the day, if we askourselvesv,e s "Was everything I did today right? Did I hurt anyone's feelings? Can I be a better person tomorrow than I was today?"—then you will see that life has become much easier.

In fact, there is no greater knowledge than knowing yourself. If we can correct ourselves, then our surroundings will already become beautiful. So let's keep our eyes open. We see people to learn, and we see ourselves to improve. Because, at the end of the day, I have to live with this 'I' for the rest of my life. So, my biggest responsibility is to make this person beautiful.

Well, finally, I want to ask you one thing, actually, you should compare the words I have said with your life every day. If you like these little words I have said, then of course, share your opinion. Thank you.