She may have high standards, but that's what makes her worth it and only a true man
She's delicate, she's helpless, but on the other hand she's a solid free lady who needn't bother with the brotherhood of a man to know her actual worth. She recognizes that a man will supplement her life since she's now total without anyone else.
She may have elevated expectations, however that is the thing that makes her justified, despite all the trouble and just a genuine man will come up and meet those norms.