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Sex and orgasms are fine, multiple, full body, all good... just don't ejaculate unless...

So it is possible to orgasam with out ejaculating? Maybe you can drop a link to this philosophy. I’m interested. I really need a change and some spiritually in my life.

Yes. "Taoist Secrets of Love - Cultivating Male Sexual Energy" by Mantak Chia is a good book that I am reading now.