Distance some ordinary relations.
Hello everyone!
Writing after a long time. I was mostly busy preparing for my exams. Today, I told myself not to procrastinate and write down the thoughts that are going through my mind.
One reason I guess for being depressed and stressed is availability. Yes, it is. Earlier, I used to think that if I was good enough, it would be okay that the relationship would work. But, not only will your efforts make the relationship work for both of you. This relationship can be anyone. If you are putting your efforts in the wrong place, then it will not work for you either. I still think that I need to be kind enough to make someone's day happy. But there is no reason to make yourself unhappy. The difference is that when you do too much to someone, you are not taken seriously. If someone is disrespecting you, you do not need to chase them.
There was a time when I used to apologize to those who ruined my day. But now I have seen a change in myself. In which I am happy. I don't prove myself. If you're hurt, ask me, but by creating a fake scenario, don't come to me.
Sometimes, it's okay to be you and distance yourself from the fakeness. You're not wrong every time.
There's a quote that says:
If you have a problem with me, text me. And if you don't have my number, you don't know me well enough to have a problem with me.
