Been there, done that... sadly.
Unfortunately, there were children involved and the courts don't understand narcissistic abuse. But I got out anyway - at great cost to me. There came a point when I understood that it was damaging my sons as well. That's when we got out. They've had to finish their childhood with him, unfortunately, but that's another story.

BTW, in the last paragraph, the word should be "ill" not "I'll"

Great post - I found you from @nonsowrites's Pay-It-Forward entry.