I think in the end it depends on the person's goals. A friend of mine got married why she had not finished varsity yet and was not self sufficient .She did not even have a part time job. I,on the other hand plan to get married when i have achieved a certain level of career stability then i can have time for a marriage and a family.Right now all i want is develop my career,buy my own house and car. Live on my own for a bit before i can even be ready to enter into marriage. (In case its relevant to your question I am a girl)