The so-called hesitation in character means that when things happen, they always keep their moves, and they always think about things when they encounter opportunities. Even when they meet people they like, they tend to hesitate, fearing that they may not do well, or that they will lose. I want to go, I want to pursue perfection, but in the end I find that the opportunity is no longer there, and the person I like has left for a long time.

If you look forward to the future, you will lose too much.

So many people with hesitating personality will regret and hate themselves for not being decisive in the first place. Of course, when the real opportunity comes again, it will still look like after thinking about it.

Character is born.

What you can do is to change your hesitating nature as much as possible. If you want to improve yourself, you should start with the following 3 points and follow them to learn.

1. Learn to trust your intuition.

Many impulsive people are often "intuitive" personalities, and they act immediately when they have the opportunity. When you encounter people and things you like, you will immediately work hard.

On the surface, it seems that the personality is anxious and does not procrastinate. In fact, there is an inherent "intuitive factor" in his personality. Intuition tells him that he likes, wants, and then his actions can immediately follow.

Similarly, people with hesitating personality have their own intuition. When intuition tells you that this is feasible or the person is cute, then learn to believe in intuition, give yourself a chance, act immediately, even if the final outcome is not very good, at least you are brave Once again.

2. Negative emotions should be discarded.

People with hesitation in character almost always have such a situation: before a thing starts, all of its disadvantages and miserable situations after failure are often in mind. The more negative emotions, the more opportunities they lose. .

Before you do something, you first think about how miserable the loss will be, not what will happen if the opportunity comes.

Before you love someone, you still think about how embarrassing you will be if you are rejected, not how happy you will be together after success.

Naturally, failure should be considered, but if you are not brave enough to take the first step, how do you know how far you can go?

3. The most important thing is to learn to let go of gains and losses.

People with hesitating character tend to have a heavy heart for gains and losses.

I'm afraid of losing, so I would rather not start.

Afraid of failure, I am willing to be mediocre.

Many successful people start by taking risks, so Mingyi believes that the most important thing for people with hesitation is to learn to let go of gains and losses.

Only by improving yourself and changing your character can you not lose opportunities.