How to win friends and influence people of Dale Carnegie. ALWAYS TALK ABOUT YOUR OWN MISTAKES
ALWAYS TALK ABOUT YOUR OWN MISTAKES
(Chapter 4) PART 3
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We don't act the same way .
When we are adults, parents, bosses, teachers and have gained some experience in life we do not act the same as when we were children, teenagers or apprentices. The reason is that we have been through a lot, made mistakes and learned from them; but if we have made mistakes, this needs to be highlighted.
You still make mistakes.
Now, because it is common to criticize and judge others when they are wrong. I think it is because it is very easy to do so and forget that you too had or still make mistakes, that is, many forget that they are still imperfect humans. Thinking things through before you say them is a very valuable technique that should be put into practice.
Speaking of our own mistakes.
In short, how much damage we can avoid when we want to say that something needs to be improved or corrected because it is wrong, if we start talking about our own mistakes, because in the end we also made them and now we have the opportunity to help others in the best way to correct and learn from theirs.
Other learning.
This book as always leaving good learning, where the author shows once that with the wrong words we hurt or damage much and that by habit of years we have believed that we speak correctly without realizing that they were actions that today can be improved by changing human relations.
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Hi dear firend,It is always good to talk about any topic but expressing ourselves about the mistakes we have made helps us to grow a lot as people we can help others not to make it and above all not to repeat them and learn a great lesson
Talk about our mistakes always gives us new perspectives helps us visualize things that we go through overlooked, and in this sense this chapter of this book is wonderful full of magnificent teachings.
Greetings @lanzjoseg I really enjoy reading this kind of material you publish, maybe because I extrapolate it to my life.
My wife often says the following saying "We only see the lagaña in other people's eyes". By this I mean that we only see the mistakes of others and do not realize our own and that we have to learn to say things if we do not want to affect the people close to us. Thank you for your contribution
Hi friend, certainly for many it is difficult to talk and accept their mistakes, I think it depends on a lot of maturity. It is important to see the mistakes we have made and the experience we have gained throughout our lives. Greetings!
Greetings friend @lanzjoseg
I constantly make mistakes, a few years ago I decided to record them, and then play them back and reflect on the reasons that led me to make a certain mistake. I do this to educate myself, in the quest to reduce the number of times I may be tempted to repeat the mistake. Perhaps this method is not the most appropriate, but it works for me to avoid making mistakes in the future.
Many of us see mistakes as a catastrophe, we think about them so much that only the thoughts make us feel even worse, and when it is our turn to correct others we seem to forget that feeling and judge without compassion, we forget that mistakes can be the beginning of success if we all have the opportunity to rectify them.
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Certainly, accepting our own mistakes is difficult, especially when we have to talk about them in front of others, but it is precisely when we recognize them that we learn from them.
good article, this is a great book
People are more relaxed when they are with someone who can admit his or her mistakes and isn't a show off of perfection,this writer truly brings series of good character check into place.