SEC17/W2| While making decisions, what do you prefer to follow: heart or mind?

in Incredible India7 months ago (edited)

To every living thing here on earth there is always time to make a choice that is make decision either good or bad and this decision making process make require one to be emotional- think using the heart while the other may require one to be intentional- think using the brain. Any process used will produce an outcome and what outcome it brings, the decision maker must face it.

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What is your preference while making decisions, heart or mind?

Making decisions by heart shows the emotional state of the person and by mind is when the person is using his brain to think before venturing into any decision making process.
An emotional person does not think or calculate before making decisions, he will rush into it while the person who is thinking through the mind that is is brain will think, calculate, check out the outcomes before making such decisions.

I remember last week I was so angry with my neighbor so I told my husband I'm not going to buy from her again no matter what because the little boy in the shop which she left behind insulted me, I was angry and my husband told me not to say that at the state I was that I am acting emotionally in response to what happened, I became so angry after that word emotional came out from my husband mouth. You on Thursday, two days after the incident I went back there again to buy 😃😃 .

On the other hand, prices of things are so high in my country so last week I went to the market to buy rice and on arrival I discover the price is double the amount I was with, so I was confused and angry too, I thought of everything, didn't know what to do, so I step aside, recalculate my money using my phone then I make the decision to change the menu after much brainstorming, calculation and thoughts.

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Do you think we need both in terms of making decisions? Describe reasons.

I think we need both in decision making.
Why I said so is because some cases of life outside my example above may demand emotional decision making such as when someone is going through life challenges and needs your help with brainstorming, much thinking just be emotionally incline and help the person in need to rise.
Most time the mind thoughts may only apply in business and you need the emotional thinking to make it in life

Are you an emotional or a practical person in real life?

I'm both, most times I portray the two without knowing depending on the situation and where I find myself. Most times I will just choose to ignore and past so I don't become too emotional.

In business I use entirely my brain in it no emotional of anytime so I don't have too many debtors because I want to understand with them.
In my everyday life journey outside business I use emotional.

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Do you have any suggestions for youth which one they should follow in their day-to-day lives?

To the business youth please don't apply emotional decision making in your business because if you do, it will ruin your business but use it when you want to just play with life.

Your decision making today will either build you up or shatter you to the floor, so be mindful, don't use too much of emotion if not people will misuse you and rubbish you some will make you feel less of yourself so always use your brain alot.

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 7 months ago 

¡Saludos amiga!😊

Decidir acoplándonos solamente en nuestras emociones siento que, es la peor manera de destruirnos y, con esto no quiero decir que debemos ser fríos o crueles pero, lamentablemente el corazón nos traiciona y para evitar esto, también debemos apoyarnos de la mente.

Te deseo mucho éxito en la dinámica, un fuerte abrazo💚

Heart over mind.

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 7 months ago 

Saat kita berhasil mengkombinasikan pikiran dan hati, maka disitulah kita bisa menjadi pemenang dari keputusan tepat yang kita ambil, semoga kita sukses di kontes ini saudari

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Estimado amigo. Excelente ejemplo el que has puesto. A veces cuando actuamos bajo la emoción cometemos errores por eso es necesario pensar y que las decisiones sean objetivas pero también pienso que debe tomarse en cuenta el corazón porque es nuestra parte noble. Te deseo éxitos y bendiciones

The heart is important in decision making process but using the two in most cases is good

Thank you for reading

 7 months ago 

সিদ্ধান্ত নেয়ার ক্ষেত্রে আপনি চমৎকারভাবে যে বিষয়টি লক্ষ্য করে থাকেন। সে বিষয়টি আপনি আমাদের সাথে তুলে ধরেছেন। সেই সাথে যে যুবকরা ব্যবসা করে থাকে। তাদের ক্ষেত্রে আপনি উল্লেখ করেছেন। তারা যেন আবেগ দিয়ে কোন সিদ্ধান্ত না নেয়। আসলে ব্যবসা করার ক্ষেত্রে অবশ্যই আমাদেরকে মাথায় রাখা উচিত। আমরা যে কাজটা করলে, আমাদের ব্যবসা ভালোভাবে এগিয়ে যাবে।

মাঝে মাঝেই দেখা যায়, আবেগ দিয়ে সিদ্ধান্ত নেয়া যে কোন জিনিস খুব সহজেই ভেঙে যায়। তাই অবশ্যই আবেগ এবং বিবেক দুইটা জিনিস মাথায় রেখে, আমাদের চেয়ে যারা বড় এবং যারা বেশি বুঝে, তাদের কাছ থেকে অবশ্যই পরামর্শ নিয়ে সিদ্ধান্ত নেয়া প্রয়োজন। ধন্যবাদ চমৎকারভাবে প্রতিযোগিতায় অংশগ্রহণ করার জন্য। ভালো থাকবেন।

Thank you for reading.
.the heart and mind is really important

Decision-making inclusives a mix of heart and mind. Psychological options mirror instant responses while sensible choices entail computed thought processes. Both are essential; feelings provide compassion as well as Spontaneity, while reasoning makes certain usefulness plus insight. Stabilizing both fosters efficient options, improving individual as well as specialist rounds alike.

Every decisions we make must be taken from a mind and heart of carefulness because the truth is we are always the product of our decisions whether good or bad. There are actually some decisions I made in life last year that I am actually regretting that I made due to some certain things and there are also some decisions I made last year that I am grateful that I actually took last year because it is already shaping my year currently now.

No matter how demanding or how you are in a rush to make decisions, you should always calm down and make sure that you take strategic decisions in life and Destinies whether that will require you to make use of your mind or your heart. The most important thing for me is to make right and wise decisions when they are needed to be made and not wrong decisions or what do you think?

You can actually make use of your heart to make both good and bad decisions and also you can make use of your mind to also make both good and mind decisions. At the end of the day, it point down to how and what decisions you took. Thank you so much for sharing this quality publications friend because I was really able to learn quite a lot from your post today I must confess.

Nice one. I don't think there is anyone who depends only on emotion or the mind but rather people use the two depending on the situation. Due to the situation of our country currently, people need to be logical in their decisions.