You don't know what you want? or if you do, but you don't have the courage to assume it?

Yesterday I read this phrase and I projected it in infinite personal and third party situations. After meditating on it for a while, it was a discovery.

This is the kind of phrase that can change your life, and the perception of many things if you have the self-knowledge and maturity necessary to assume what it brings: it is not pressure, it is to understand it and with it, to understand (redundancy), that what you have been avoiding so much in the "I don't know what I want", or "I am confused", in reality could have existed in you at some point, but, today, it is only an evasion, a shield that you are using to avoid connecting with a feeling or a reality that you are afraid to assume; The worst thing is that at the end of the story many of us end up evading, for not complicating ourselves, for not wanting to face situations that can "move us" from our current state, or simply for laziness.

And to the latter you will tell me "I threw in the towel, I really wanted it?": yes, obviously, if you had not wanted it you would never have grabbed the towel...

Do you know what the most important thing is? That many times what we let go of ends up being more of a blessing than if we stick to it. The truth is:
"Don't say you don't know what you want", know yourself, accept and respect yourself, and say: I DON'T want this, or I DO want that. Everything will flow muchooo easier ♥️✌🏻.

Saturday to assume ☺️.