RE: I tell myself STOP resisting Find the LESSON!
I can not thank you enough for your genuine care about my situation. So glad I am following you, I will be sure to be reading your posts. So good to know that we have others to confide in. It makes all the difference in the world. I have joined a lot of support groups and it really helps. I am learning so much. Many blessings to your family. I see we are having the same struggles and your right, your 7 year old my 8 year old they are the ones that suffer. My grandson just turned 8 and when he sent his mother a letter in jail , I said draw what ever you want and out he came with a picture of his mom behind bars standing beside a policeman. He wrote Dear mom, I love you. Please don't go to jail again. Quit breaking the law. I almost fell over but I sent it because that is what he really felt and she really needed to hear it.
You're more then welcome. And I am happy you have found ways to deal with it AND maintain such a level of positivity. After reading a couple of your posts, I found myself a little envious of your optimism. Evans doing pretty good. (Mom's been gone all last two months, minus one week.) I'm really fortunate to have a fiancee that is an extremely great positive role model for Evan. He's been dealing with it his whole life unfortunately. Any more he doesn't ask about her much any more. There will always be moments I'm sure. But for now the storm has calmed. I will continue to keep you all in my thoughts and will always ask our creator for relief in your ciurrent situation. I hope that your grandson will grow using your knowledge and love. With you in his life, I am sure he will grow to be a great man.