I get really upset by reading That because someone wrote something it is a sign to avoid using the brain!
It is so easy for both sexes to say that we come from different planets and vips we have established that it is like That and there is nothing we can do about it. But if we start thinking about what it's all about, then it's common sense, treat others how you want to be treated to, think before you act, instead of chop on the opposite sex - think about your behavior once again, am I better, and if you are- in what way??

Referring to books, etc. without any further reflection, doesnt give anyone right to treat people unjustly. Just because someone writes that men and women come from different planets do not mean that we can not show respect for each other, it does not mean that "just because it is already said we are different" then we will behave in this way .
We are thinking creatures and regardless of whether gender, religion, culture or skin color are different, we should be able to behave like the higher standing creatures we claim to be!