Who pushed me?

A king had a beautiful daughter who he wanted to give out in marriage,but he desired a passionate and courageous man who is not solely interested in his kingdom.This prompted a competition for the various suitors;they were to swim through a river containing several crocodiles,while every one else was complaining,contemplating,fusing,revolting and relenting,a big splash was heard,and a young man was swimming quickly and passionately to the other side of the river.After successfully going through,something surprisingly happened,instead of him celebrating and rejoiceing on his achievement,he was full of rage and bitterness,a dazzling question popped up from him " WHO PUSHED ME".What!! was the expression on everyones lip,sometimes,we are being pushed in life to actualising our goals and potentials by people,ideas and situations beyond our desire.These sometimes might not be pleasureable at first but at the end,brings out the best and hidden potentials in us.Life brings to us both sweet and not pleasant experiences,this is to modify us and enhance us for a glorious life depending on how we respond to them,do we allow ourselves to be pushed by people,ideas and situations for better tomorrow,and how often? Or do we refuse training and the inner desire for growth and excellence?This forces can Internal and external,the greatest achievers are people who have allowed themselves to be pushed by ideas,people and situation into the arena of their belives.Depending on WHO and WHAT pushes a man,that will necessarily depend on how far he will go and how quickly he will go in the prescribe direction.Actually ,everyone is being push in the certain fields and directiond we find ourselves,"WHO IS YOUR MENTOR?WHAT ARE YOUR DOMINANT THOUGHT?WHAT IDEAS INFUSES A DRIVING FORCE IN YOU?WHAT KEEPS YOU AWAKE AT NIGHT?