Shunning and ostracism are such powerful ways to grow the world.

I think a lot of people fear freedom/voluntaryism for exactly this reason. Subconsciously of course. And it's chicken/egg, because the statist mindfuck that surrounds us has given them incentive to become who they are. But at this point they know they'll have worse outcomes when ostracism is fully enabled and fully expressed. They literally depend on the state, because they'll have worse social standing when it's decentralized and p2p.