THE ONE

I romanticized the one too much. It's an idea that got into my mind when I was young, from culture; movies, music, literature, etc. Did you find The one? Did you find it and lost it or did you maybe found it two times? I do find the one every time, but guess what happened to me not long ago. I become aware of how dupped I was to think that such a person exists. No, there is no one The One. THE ONE is none other than YOU.
Why?

• You hold the capacity to recognize an eventual person who might be ideal for yourself. You would hold all the criteria needed to classify such a person.
• Critical and original judgment is possible when you are independent and free. Most of the time, being in a relationship with THE ONE will lead to nasty enmeshment and entangling of minds.