There's always a choice to make. And there is no bad choice, if you think its for everyone's sake. People from outside your country think you are all so rich. Nice cars, nice houses. They don't know those are necessities. I have relatives who moved there in hopes of living the American Dream. Some succeeded, some didn't. Some said they barely see each other for working more than double jobs to keep up with the bills. It sucks.

But this is a very good choice you made for your family. You gotta do what you gotta do. The twins have amazing parents and I know they'll understand the choices you made.