You do not ask to look at what you did being right or wrong. I just want you to know I think you did right. You needed this to have a closure on a part of your life that hurt you the most. You do not hate him anymore, you accept what he did was wrong, and you accept he is doing wrong now, and you decided not to take part in that anymore out of self- preservation. I have seen a special tag for this life story, I think it was @familyprotection? something with family. Maybe your story would help a few searching how to deal with things like this. Your story is a jewel, you do not bath in your own sadness, you tell why... and that is so understandable. You are doing well sweety keep on rocking big hugg (((xxx)))
Thank you so much @janine-ariane
Your perspective means so much to me. Your perception of how I feel is spot on. I have accepted what is, and had made the decision to move on in a positive direction. His inability to do so has deeply saddened me, but it was due to my own expectations, and I have learned an invaluable lesson from this. Setting expectations onto others, is a recipe for disappointment. Sometimes people may fulfill your expectations, but often, you will not get what you were looking for. This decision was indeed for my own wellness and self preservation. Although I am saddened, I know I chose correctly. I have been asking to be filled with light and happiness, and I do not expect it to happen over night, but I believe with full faith, that if it's positivity that I seek, than it is positivity I shall receive.
Thanks for your thoughts Janine huggs back
You just had to search back contact, to know you were right in the first place, and you recognized it again. This time you could deal without self destroying things in mind to forget what life teached you. That is a hell of a progress darling, I admire you for that! You now forgive him, without expecting it will be different from now. YOU have changed not him. He gave you life, the reason to be thankful for. No more no less.