Don't beat yourself up now, having winter and summer wardrobe's isn't a crime, at least not here where I live, I don't know about South Africa. It sounds like you make good choices with yours going to your workers and charity. It was just a friendly suggestive thought, we have limited closet space so we do this a couple times a year. We are a family of six so we almost do it out of necessity, the kids outgrow stuff pretty fast. It would surprise folks how many children are homeless and depend on these shelters, we always think of the homeless here as mainly men, war vet's with mental issues, but they are just one piece of the puzzle of the homeless landscape picture.