This would make another post entirely. However, this was the summation of your talk;

you have to care about the other party else dispensed info does unintended purpose.

I get the picture exactly. The big picture. And the fear might be that the other person just sees the short term and thinks not ahead.

It is a tough one on your part. One that requires trust and someone with the same mindset with yours to set the mind of the business.

There is always a way, always.