This is What Happens when you Make Porn Illegal [Part 3: The Lucrative Sex Service Business]
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So far, we've deliberated the status of illegality in porn that South Korea enjoys and the general social effects of the underground market of pornographic content. Mix this into a very conservative nation where even middle-aged seasoned professionals continue to live with their parents, and it's no surprise that sex or access to sexual content is almost impossible for the average Korean.
Where does one go then to relieve one's lower-body compulsions? You guessed it. Into the literal hands of another.
The sex industry is booming in South Korea, constituting over 1% of the GDP and surpassing the whole of local agriculture in profits. Prostitution, and other sexual services, is illegal (but of course we've learned that illegality can sometimes do very little to curb social norms) and on face-value is never spoken openly about.
Sex workers in Korea protest for protection rights. Source: Yahoo News
Now, you might think that I'm conflating the lack of porn with a thriving sex industry when there is a sound argument that these could be unrelated. After all, Japan has both a high amount of pornographic production/distribution and a notorious sex industry. I do agree that there are many other factors at play, including familial elements where marriages are typically not predicated on “love” and a general service-based culture that also affects the food industry and general consumerism. Still, I cannot imagine a situation where banning access to physical catharsis concerning one of human's most compelling impulses would not result in strong alternatives. Plus, it makes a natural segue from a firewall to the sex industry. ;)
Unlike places such as The Netherlands where prostitution is lumped in with personal freedoms and exists more as a touristic novelty, sexual companionship is very routine in this hyper-conservative nation and almost recreational when observed from a macro lens.
A Spicy Menu of Options
Of course, the streets don't just populate with street walkers and ladies of the night come sundown, the industry is much more varied and discreet. In a country where sex can never be allowed to emerge onto the surface, Seoul has a long road to go before becoming like Sao Paolo or Amsterdam (though there are parts of the city that used to be very similar). Instead, there's an intricate and constantly evolving sublayer of a sex industry in Korea. The range from the most innocuous, almost juvenile little services to the most decked-out, high-end escort companionship that comes with several hours of programming. Here are some the popular choices -
Kissbang 키스방 // “Kiss Room”: Paying for young female superficial companionship. These arrangements are typically short and do not exceed basic contact and kissing.
Source: The Grand Narrative
Anma // Sex Service Spa: Private rooms or apartments with arranged services and operate under the guise of a typical massage parlor. These can range in types of acts and offerings at many economic tiers.
Bacchus Woman: Women (typically older / 50+) who offer basic sexual services to older men at a low cost. These women usually market themselves in code outdoors, such as parks and plazas where older people tend to congregate.
Source: Movie "The Bacchus Lady
Now sure, every major city and even many small towns will have some kind of underground option to get one's rocks off. What's stunning in Korea however is that over 50% of men report on having paid for these services at some point and many resort to this regularly. Take away access to sexual gratification and the alternative becomes the mainstream.
Source: Video Blocks
It's a two-way street as well. Since sexual services are in such high constant demand and (mostly) men are willing to pay a premium (an avg. of $150 basic hour of services), the escort industry is highly attractive to females who can easily earn more than a typical office salary with part-time companionship. A surprisingly high number of girls engaging in this practice - I read one previous statistic of anywhere between 1 of 7 – 1 of 11 young women in Korea will have offered romantic services at some point in their lives. Worst of all, underage women willingly submit to this industry as well.
With issues such as prostitution, it's hard to come up with real reasons why this practice exists and how to potential curb such a profession. I think one of the ways to broach this issue and a have a productive discourse is to trace it to the most basic of societal and legislative moves. From my point of few, I'm quite certain that making pornography legal would contribute to a marked decline in both spy-porn and escorting. Perhaps I'll explore that reasoning in a future post if readers haven't found this short series too cringy...
Article 1, Korea's Bondage
Article 2, Hidden Uploads
Legalizing most things results in a freer conscious for your own decision-making. This is noteworthy. We never wants laws to dictate our thoughts. Our thoughts come from within. Thoughts lead to actions. Action leads to character. Don't you want your actions based upon beliefs contrived from the value system derived from your inner self? Places like Portugal have seen diminished crime rates and use of harmful drugs as the result of the decriminilization of many drugs. This allows the individual to create more conscious thoughts. Although we may still hold the belief in our government and all the institutions that result, we have a greater sense of self. Similar to us 'Steemians'--> We are thriving on crypto as a result of our belief in it! Just the same as our belief in the USD and the paper printing of the USD allows us to buy and sell commodities or services. Good post!
I can't agree more with what you've written. Particularly in place like Korea, I wish individuals would break from norms and act upon their own convictions. It would lead to a much more productive and dynamic, resilient social fabric.
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Great post @hansikhouse. As a foreigner living here I can see many illicit things that go on, but when I bring it up with Korean friends or coworkers the subject becomes almost taboo. Very very interesting how a multi billion dollar industry is kind of brushed under the carpet, as everyone is aware of what is going on. Why not give it the attention it deserves, even go so far as to legalize it, so you can tax sex workers, allow proper health care etc. When marriage failure rates continue to rise, prostitution has become ubiquitous, porn sites are banned, and no one is having a conversation about this, that's the biggest problem of all
In a country that would rather die than lose face, I'm still shocked at the daily national amnesia that occurs around this industry. I agree with you, some public discourse and legislation could go a long way to protect both consumers and providers. Still, even basic sex education is yet to be implemented to we'll see what happens in terms of real action. My biggest concern is all of the consequences that are occurring due to this hush hush topic. Recently there was a big scandal where Korean middle school(?) girls were willingly taking part in unprotected prostitution and one even contracted HIV. Oy vey....
Thanks for the comment Jason!
You're totally right. Education goes a long way, and sex education is no different. The idea about losing face is also (likely) a big reason for the very high suicide rate in this country. When people can't openly talk about their problems without fear of stigma and harsh judgement, you get exactly the type of problems we are currently seeing. It's great to have the perspective of a Korean who didn't really grow up in Korea.
Haha I reaaaally appreciate that comment. I'm always an outsider, a Twinkie or Yankee in most peoples' eyes. I think it gives me a broad overhead perspective that helps rationalize why things are rather than chalking it up to "well, that's just the way things are here." It's frightening how easy it is to be swept up in a wave of culture, especially in a smaller nation like Korea, and not doubt day to day activities and dispositions.
If up to 50% of the male population and 14% of the female population are/have been involved in the sex trade, wouldn't that make it much easier for it to get legalized? Although on the other hand I have no idea how a nation that outright bans porn would be able to have a civil discussion about prostitution.
That's ultimately the biggest hurdle. It's everywhere but nowhere at the same time. Talking about this with anyone is like pulling teeth. Every society has elements that its citizens just cope with needlessly.
Much to the chagrin of my husband, I've watched my fair share of KDramas. I can't stand American TV with all of it's violence and innuendo, so I turn to DramaFever when I want to watch something. Your article was surprising, and then again, not surprising to me. Not surprising because KDramas are so G-rated, that one realizes there is no way that this is reality for your average Korean. Everyone can't be a chaebol, right? I was surprised because I tried to watch a Korean movie. Granted, not every movie was like the one I started, but my, oh, my, it was pretty pornographic (and was immediately turned off!) I could hardly believe the country who gave us Boys Over Flowers could give us whatever-the-name-of-that-movie-was. I don't think legalizing porn is the answer. If 50% of men are out seeking services else where, what are the women doing? Are they crying their eyes out at home? Are they glad he's not around to bug them? Does the parents involvement in their children's marriages have anything to do with these numbers? There must be a deeper cause that can be addressed. When did we stop really loving each other and honoring our commitments? Thanks for giving me something to think about! (ps - Please be nice as this is my first ever comment on Steemit! Go me!)
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