As there is no yardstick to measure the degree of happiness or anger. Your myjesty! one may be happy for wordly materialistic things or spiritual growth and development. It's natural anger and patience have recipocal connection. I really admire your phrase "mind over matter". Well! lets have sometime with each other to overcome with the disease of not controlling our anger sir. May be it work as impatience destroy serienity of mind. Who else can understand better than you as we are victom of same disease. What say!