И couldn't agree more with this powerful and deeply necessary post. You’ve articulated a painful truth that so many people need to hear. For too long, toxic endurance has been mislabeled as faith, and silence has been glorified as a virtue. But as you beautifully noted, survival is not success—sanity, safety, and peace are.

To add to your point, love excludes any form of violence . True faith and true love protect; they do not oppress, control, or terrify. Walking away from an abusive environment is the ultimate act of courage and self-preservation, not a failure of faith or commitment. Thank you for speaking out so clearly against this conditioning and for reminding women that their lives and mental wholeness matter far more than any societal or religious opinion. This post will undoubtedly give someone the strength they need to choose themselves.
Greetings from Bulgaria
shemZee