I know you didn't mean any harm or foul buddy. I just honestly dunno other than sharing a picture of me what else I could do - unless you have some tips/pointers? I'm definitely open to learning and changing what I'm doing if it's not effective bro.

One thing laying in that bed for 5 days taught me to do was to check my ego at the door - so, if I came off as rude or acting like I knew it all, I apologize. I'm all ears if you have suggestions for things i should do differently here. Thank you.