I chat with a few every now and then.
I wouldn't call them unless I knew them.
You have to remember we all are learning here and we all have a different viewpoint of what is acceptable and what is not.

You might like something that triggers me and vice versa. You seem to be a California guy and we would never meet eye to eye. I am a southern man. But we can treat each other with respect and kindness.
If it is a truly open and uncensored platform we should be able to do as we please if were not hurting another person. Including joking about calling witnesses.