Firstly, I want to say that am so happy to hear your health is almost back to 100%,and I believe your present status gives you more time to rest, so that you can recover much faster.
For me, I don't have any issues with a spouse that is a 'work at home'. As long as we are both happy, that's what matters to me. It all depends on what we love doing. If I love to work against steeming, then I'll get a job, but if I love steeming then I'll steem. So I'll advice you go with option 6, so everyone will be happy.
@lucyc nice to see you here! Ok I see where you're coming from. So right now we are pretty much doing #6. So far this has made the most sense for use given those factors. Thanks alot for your input.
You always welcome